Is it ok to love yourself first?

Divya Agrawal
3 min readMay 6, 2021

This question must have came in your mind too, right?

We often prioritize our-self last and don’t know how we can love ourselves. Loving yourself means respecting your own needs and time. The problem is we sometimes are less concerned about our own happiness and running behind people to make them happy. When you will start loving yourself you can see more positive people around you. Accept what you are and for what work you are in this world. Definitely you will find people who are full of negativity and will try to pull you down in every possible situation. You don’t have to listen to them just do your work sincerely. one day you will see the change in their outlook towards you. Spread happiness, love and care for people who really matter you the most. Try to hang out with positive people or the people who applaud you and force you to bring out the best within you. Get yourself fit. Try new dresses . Bring a change. Do what you actually love to do. One thing which you can do anytime is smile and smile a lot. You never know if you are making someone’s day with this.

There are some things if you do daily you will find yourself more energetic and will make you a step ahead in loving yourself.

  • Start waking up early- When you start waking up early , you will start realizing that you have a big day to start your things. Remember those days when we were in school and we used to sleep early and wake up early and at that time we never faced any health related issues. Everything was so perfect. so, bring this good change in you , I can bet you will be more active throughout a day.
  • Start doing workout- workout not only helps you in making you fit but also makes you feel positive.
  • Eat healthy- Eating habits actually affects us in many ways. It will keep your mind and body active. You can have cheat days but try to eat more healthy as possible.
  • Love your body- We should always feel proud of what we have. Try to make it more better. Everyone in this world is beautiful. so, start realizing it. when you will actually realize it, you don’t have to run behind the artificial beauty . Start loving your body. Start caring for it. Dude, you got one life why to waste over unnecessary things.
  • Develop reading habit- We should always read something daily. It will not only opens up your mind but also give you new thoughts , fresh ideas. you can start with reading anything whatever it is just start it.

So, what are you waiting for. Start following it. No one is coming to do this for you , all you have to do is at your own. So, stop thinking and start doing.

“Tomorrow never come, today is the only best day”

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Divya Agrawal

A tiny writer who is trying to connect with people through her writing.